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– Relationships Come F.I.R.S.T. – ON-LINE

Relationships Come F.I.R.S.T.

(Formula for Improving Relationship Success Tools)

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Discover a Simple System
With Powerful Tools for
Preventing or Resolving Conflicts and

Improving or Healing the Relationships
in Your Life,
so you can
Experience Harmony, Peace and Joy
in Every Area of Your Life!

“Relationships Come F.I.R.S.T.” is the 6-lesson on-line course that you’ve been looking for! (6-weeks is the suggested pace, but you can take it at your own pace.)

This is NOT a course that will help you change other people. This course is about becoming the kind of person who others feel so good to be around that it raises them up and they naturally become the best person they can be!

By the end of this powerful 6-lesson on-line training program, you will have changed from the inside out and have all the skills and tools to transform ALL of your relationships, faster and easier than you ever thought possible!

If you’re like most people, you probably
want to have meaningful relationships.
But right now, your relationships
really aren’t where you want
them to be.

For example…

  • You have a hard time sleeping or concentrating at work, because you are still upset about a conversation that went badly.
  • You recently had an argument with your spouse and the two of you haven’t talked much since. The “Should have’s, Could haves” are replaying in your head, but you can’t find the right words to make everything okay again.
  • Your boss has control issues and drives you crazy! Your co-workers want to vent to you about it and you can’t get your work done.
  • Your mother calls you and lays another guilt trip on you. Your sister calls to complain that she did the same thing to her. You feel like they’ve collectively dumped toxic waste on you.
  • You go home and your kids are bouncing off the walls. You don’t have the time, energy or patience to deal with it.
  • Thank goodness you planned a night out with your friends, but they just want to gossip and complain, too.

All this negativity and drama is making you feel like you have the weight of the world on YOUR shoulders!You feel so drained!

You want everyone in your life to just get along – if even for one day!

While you THINK you’re doing everything in your power to make your relationships work, you keep seeing that the other people in your life just aren’t getting it! They keep bringing all the drama back into your life over and over again, preventing you from having the harmony, inner peace and joy that you really want!

Someone on their death bed isn’t likely to say, “All the money and things I accumulated were the most important element of my life.”

In fact, they probably won’t say “All the time I spent away from my family and the stress of my career helped me make my mark in the world.”

If you ask someone approaching the end of their life what the single most important thing was during their life, they’re likely to answer:


So if Relationships are this important to someone on their death bed, then why don’t more people learn how to develop relationships that are fulfilling and rewarding?

What if you could discover a simple system that could turn every relationship in your life into an effortless, joyful, and harmonious relationship?

What if ALL of your relationships were …
… Filled with ease?
… Relaxing instead of stressful?
… Meaningful and helped you feel connected on a deeper level?
… So fulfilling they made you feel like your life is better off as a result of the relationship?

With just a small amount of time, You CAN transform all your relationships and start experiencing More Harmony, Inner Peace and Joy in YOUR Life!

When you apply the special problem-solving system and practical tools you’ll learn in the “Relationships Come F.I.R.S.T.” Course, you will know how to:

  • Prevent problems from starting in your relationships so that you never again have to repair a damaged relationship.
  • Improve communication between you and ANYONE in your life (your boss, your co-workers, your children, your spouse or significant other, acquaintances and friends, or anyone else in your life!). Then you never again have to deal with a misunderstanding that leads to an argument and instead, you’ll experience what’s it like to have other people respect you and what you have to say.
  • Understand why conflicts occur and know exactly what to say and do to resolve them in a healthy way that even promotes long-term healing. When you learn how to do this, you’ll never again have to stress- out over causing an argument by speaking up in your relationships!

  • Eliminate having to take on other people’s problems and negative energy so that you can live your life in a positive, fulfilling way!
  • Bring out the best in yourself and others so that each of you in your relationships are able to have deeper, more meaningful connections with others.
  • Find win/win solutions that meet everyone’s needs so that both of you are invested in making the relationship work and follow through with the agreements you reach.
  • Know how to set clear boundaries others respect, so people stop pushing you around and you start getting more of what YOU want in your life!
  • Feel better about yourself so that you’re more open, loving, positive, and encouraging to others, which then lifts them up to a more positive place where they can better connect with you.
  • Feel peaceful and at ease no matter what is happening around you.

The people who have used this simple, problem-solving system and its tools in their relationships have experienced first hand that all this and MORE IS possible for ANY relationship in their life!

In fact, when using a combination of the communication skills, inner-work and energy healing techniques in the Relationships Come F.I.R.S.T. course, it’s produced first-hand evidence of how much their lives are transformed!

  • They get advancements in their career – because they were better able to communicate with their boss.
  • They experience less stress at work – because they were able to better communicate with co-workers.
  • Their marriages are more fulfilling than ever before – because they no longer argue with their spouse.
  • They’re having a LOT more fun – because they have more friends and their friendships are stronger than they’ve ever been!

If you want to experience:

  • More harmonious relationships in every area of your life,
  • More inner peace,
  • Inner healing through freedom from drama, trauma, and limiting beliefs,
  • Joy and happiness in your life, that comes from within and radiates outward…

Then the “Relationships Come F.I.R.S.T.” course is exactly what you need!

If You Are Ready To Transform Your Relationships,
As Well As Your Life?
Then Don’t Wait Another Minute To Take Advantage of
The “Relationships Come F.I.R.S.T.” On-line Course!

“Relationships Come F.I.R.S.T.” is a comprehensive 6-week course that includes all the holistic tools, tips and resources you need to engage your mind, body and spirit in improving your relationships, including:

  • Six 2-hour recorded webinar sessions (with mp3 recordings) that focus on “The Six Keys to Harmonious Relationships.” Each session, the panel of Relationship Toolshop® Experts and I focus on one key, including how to:
    • Establish a vision of the ideal relationship, so you can stop focusing on what’s wrong with the other person and get clear on what you want the relationship to be.
    • Learn the three-step process for manifesting anything you want in your life. You will focus on relationships, but you can use this process to create the relationships and life of your dreams.
    • Become consciously aware of the limiting, negative beliefs and behavior patterns you have that continue to bring the same conflicts and drama into your life. When you shift these beliefs and clear these blocks, you create space that can be filled with love, which brings unlimited possibilities of positive change and others have to respond to you differently.
    • Clear out the clutter and toxins of past resentments and trauma and fill that space with truth, love and forgiveness, so you can heal and be whole. Even if others don’t change or the relationship ends, you can now attract in only positive relationships with others and never again have to relive or be affected by past hurts and histories.
    • Prevent or respond effectively to relationship challenges that arise and know exactly what to say and do by asking yourself three important questions. The answers will point you to an effective response, so you quickly and easily identify the real issue that is at the core of the emotions and behaviors you are seeing.
    • Have a caring conversation that helps each person be understood and find a solution that is agreeable to both parties. When you use these five tools, you never have a confrontation again.
  • check-list-36969_960_720-test-pixabayWeekly lesson handouts that introduce you to the potent concepts discussed on the webinar recordings. You can refer to these again and again so you always stay on track and don’t create problems or react rashly in emotional situations.
  • A F.I.R.S.T. Course Action Guide that helps you apply what you are learning to the relationship or life issues you want to resolve. By putting the tools you learn into action, you can achieve the results you want faster and easier than you ever thought possible.
  • Meditation and visualization recordings that can change what’s happening in your relationships on a spiritual level, without you having to lift a finger. Just plug in your ear buds or pop in a CD, sit back and relax, and let the angels and the universe do the healing for you. You’ll feel rested, relaxed, at peace and may even start seeing overnight, miraculous results!

Watch a six-minute overview

Ready to get Started?


If you have even one relationship that’s causing you stress, you already know it’s affecting other areas of your life. Every day that stress continues, it chips away at your health, emotional well-being and ability to concentrate.

Instead of dwelling on the problem, complaining about the effects, and blaming the other person, empower yourself to make a change NOW

So when do you want your relationships to start healing? Today? Next year? Or have you already given up?

You know you want healthy relationships. You know you play a role in the healing process. But do you know just how much power you have within yourself right now to effect positive change?

If you’re ready to do your part, within yourself, to create harmonious relationships and experience inner peace, joy and blessings in every area of your life, then this is the next step.

This course is created/presented by Jody Johnston Pawel, LSW, CFLE, Founder/CEO of Relationship Toolshop® International Training Institute, LLC, who is an award-winning author and top-rated speaker. She’s spent the past 30+years studying all these topics and in this course she blends content from several proven-effective courses she’s taught for several decades, worldwide, with positive results for tens of thousands of people. She’s done all the research for you and put it together in this package!

Here are just a few comments from past participants:

* “This has opened new doors for all my relationships and has literally stopped the door slamming effect in every area of our lives.” — Allison Wilson

* “I truly can take what I have learned from this class and use it with children and adults with positive results. The approaches that Jody has taught me facilitates better communication in my relationships at home and work.” — Chioma Patterson

* “It was truly beneficial to me in dealing with my children, adult relationships and learning more about myself.” — Jacki George

* “These skills can be used in all your relationships (personal & business). I was amazed at the simplicity of the techniques. All it takes is some practice!” — Susan Vance

* “After the 2nd class, I saw a difference in my thought patterns and ways I experienced and released emotions! I feel energized, more balanced, and confident! Things that use to bother me, seem to just float away like a bubble. I did not realize how much I was actually keeping stuffed inside of me. I feel like such a weight has been lifted from my shoulders.” — Belinda Long

* “I was impressed with the diversity of stress relieving techniques. I have used many of the techniques and I share what I have learned with others.” — Kay Lynch

* I love how I feel during the day. I feel light. I no longer feel weighed down by worries and depressing thoughts. My focus has changed from, ‘How can this be?’ to, ‘Wow! What more is possible?’ Life is fantastic!” — K

* “I saw a change in my thoughts to more positive ones. Slowing down thoughts. Significant drop in smoking. Significant improvement on changing old thought/chemical patterns. More peace.” — Kelly Bush